To The Patriarch Of The Family
- Tara Smith
- Sep 24
- 2 min read
To The Patriarch of the Family:
You’ve probably already made up your mind about this conference. You’ve seen the ads, you’ve heard the talk, and you’ve said, “No. Not for me.”
I get it. You’ve worked hard your whole life, you’ve made the decisions, and you know better than anyone what it takes to keep this ranch running. And frankly, you don’t want some so-called “expert” telling you you’ve been doing it wrong or taking sides with your kids against you.
But I want you to hear me out.....this conference isn’t about someone telling you how to run your ranch. It’s not about proving you wrong. It’s about giving you tools so your family actually listens to you, understands where you’re coming from, and respects the years of experience you’ve poured into this operation.
You might be surprised to hear this, but the speakers might actually support you. They’ve worked with a lot of ranch families, and they know that sometimes the kids don’t see the whole picture. That they don’t understand the weight of responsibility you’ve carried for decades. At this conference, you’ll learn better ways to get that across to them.....not by arguing, but by communicating in a way that works.
Here’s what you’ll walk away with:
Practical ways to explain why you’ve made the decisions you’ve made, so your kids finally understand instead of thinking THEY know better.
Strategies to make conversations less heated, so you’re not stuck in constant conflict that causes stress and wears everybody out.
A chance to actually feel heard, maybe for the first time in a long time.
This isn’t about sitting in a circle singing kumbayas. It’s about giving you real tools to keep your ranch and your family intact. And whether you admit it or not, we both know you want that.
So, you can keep sweeping the hard stuff under the rug. Or you can come spend two days with folks who understand exactly what you’re dealing with and who will respect the choices you've made to get where you are.
It’s your choice. But this conference might just surprise you.
“The ultimate test of man's conscience may be his willingness to sacrifice something today for future generations whose words of thanks will not be heard.” ― Gaylord Nelson





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